is it too early to pop out the question?

many girls like to ask question like, "do you see me in your future?" "why are you in relationship with me?". and they like to ask this questions when the relationship is still not mature; few months, a year. why are we asking this questions that make guys run away? so if they run away, you know they are not good enough for you? maybe. but why i say it is not appropriate to ask this question when your relationship is still new?

i understand that we as girls want something assuring from guys, so by popping the question "are you gonna marry me?" can at least relieve us from this crazy thoughts: "does he just want me for fun?" "am i good enough for him?". We have to stop from this madness thoughts because words are just words. Guys can lie and promise "of course i will marry you, you're the only one i want", and the next day they leave you. If guys want you, they will stay with you, if they don't, they will fool around or they will just leave you. Plus, your relationship is too early to judge whether this person is The One. Asking too early about marriage shows insecurity, it shows you don't trust him and what worst when you don't get the real answer from him, then it haunt the rest of your time with him. In the end, you left with broken heart. Maybe you already know he's the one and wish he think the same way too, but not everyone fall in love on the first sight, and not everyone knows what they want once they see it. Everyone need time to get to know someone, even when you think you know he's the one. When you both are in deep love, it doesn't mean it is a green light to ask a man the question. It is normal to feel so in love with someone when the relationship is only a couple of months old because you still in a honeymoon mode. but when you get back to real life and all the bad habits are shown, that's the time of real relationship, that's the time to understand and learn... could this person be the one for you?

Relationship is a process to know if that someone is your worth.

After time flies by, you learnt about each other, when he knows you and you know him well, without words needed, deep down you know how he feels about you and when the time is right, your wish will come true, he will pop the question!

much love, xoxo